Help your parents avoid probate
Should you buy your parent's home to dodge probate?
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Should you buy your parent's home to dodge probate?
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I had similar problems when mom passed. I had just retired, and mom had a medical problem while i was house hunting, since my area of choice was near her place, i put my stuff in storage and stayed with mom to help her out and continue looking.. It turned out i could not find a suitable place and was there 9 months (mostly because of helping her, etc. which took up time and very few places to view. In that time, my 42 yr old son had a heart attack. 3 days before he was to go for bypass surgery, mom died. So i ended up homeless, critically ill son recently retired so stress levels as high as could be. mom died in afternoon and the next day my sister(executor) calls and says she’s sending a realtor to just check out the place.I wonder just how long she had to sell the house that we had put in her name. I wasn’t asking months, just a few days to land after my mom’s death and pending surgery of my son a few days after. Real Estate sales in the area were at a high so we were pretty sure it would sell fast, which it did, in a week. Would it have mattered to give me maybe just 2 days before worrying about a realtor coming there when i was living there and nowhere to go. Even at bare minimum i would have had to prepare by moving stuff around when i was trying to keep track of my business/paperwork etc. I wonder how much time we had to sell when she died and it was in my sister’s name. Just had a comment that it was right that she had to start less than 24 hours with a realtor. Besides I was leaving after son’s surgery; I was going to stay with him to help him recover. It upended a lot of family; I have 6 siblings. I had moved most to storage but had some things i didn’t store, which were in basement. After i went to my sons, I was locked out of moms and couldn’t check my belongings and to this day I’m not sure where some things went.
Really lots to this, which is too long for this comment section of course. thanks for information. I should have a few rights when i was living there and caring for mom, besides.