Downsizing done right

I do not know how to measure this but I am convinced that there are more second hand stores in Victoria, B.C. than in any other place in Canada. These stores sell a wide range of clothing, kitchen wares, sporting goods, electronics and furniture. Some reasons that create both a supply and demand for these stores include

-Great options for downsizing due to the broad selection of condos and apartments

-Estate sales;

-New retiree arrivals find that their furniture either does not fit or is unsuitable for their new home;

-Those leaving Victoria prefer to avoid the expense of shipping off an island;

-University/college town;

-Eclectic nature of island dwellers; and,

-Heightened attention on environment and re-using items on the island.

Recently a friend of mine from Ontario who was in town visiting her mother, dropped by. I recall my friend being a fairly accomplished pack rat and unable to discard her growing children’s library of early readers and baby furniture. However, she and her husband seemed to have tackled the downsizing challenge with a very novel approach.

The last child had completed her first post-secondary degree which was all that the parents agreed to support. In this family, this is the signal to “stand on your own two feet.” The big family home was put up for sale and sold quickly. The youngest was offered moving assistance from her parents to get her stuff out of the house. A deal was struck with a move-it-yourself company to rent a small truck plus get a large storage unit for free for a couple of months.

The moving plan was put into action.  Four “piles”:

1. Kid’s stuff into the moving van and onward to her new location.
2. Parents’ stuff not wanted—sold or offered for free on Kijiji.
3. Parents’ stuff wanted for new and smaller home—moved by professional movers on closing day of house purchase.
4. Undecided stuff—packed up for storage unit (temporarily).

The storage unit provided some extra time for the downsizers to see how it felt to live in their new place without all their stuff. It also allowed for some breathing room to prove that the extra stuff was unnecessary. However for the downsizing to be completed, the storage unit needed to be viewed as temporary and as an unnecessary expense.

Here’s where the real discipline kicked in. Within two months the large (and free) storage unit was partially cleared. It was downsized to the middle sized unit and monthly payments began (the free period had expired). Two more months of downsizing and they moved the remaining stuff into to the smallest storage unit with a smaller monthly rental fee. Two months later the downsizing was completed and they no longer required a storage unit. This saved both the monthly rental fee and the burden of owning unnecessary stuff.

If you have never experienced downsizing don’t underestimate how difficult it is for most of us. This is a great approach if you can stick with the plan!