Grad expectations: saving for your child’s education
Ignore the ads that urge you to save $60,000 to send your child to university. You can do it for $20 a week.
Advertisement
Ignore the ads that urge you to save $60,000 to send your child to university. You can do it for $20 a week.
Share this article Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Linkedin Share on Reddit Share on Email
I wish I had read this when it was published instead of stumbling across it now, 2024. My daughter was born around that time and USC got my information from the “Welcome Wagon” at the hospital and bombarded me with a pitch after I got home with my newborn baby. Sleep-deprived and guilted by the thought of my precious baby graduating with the same burden of student debt I just had, I signed up and agreed to a payment plan that was more than I could reasonably afford and yet still somehow fell dreadfully shy of the target I was expected to meet – indeed USC cited it would in the $60,000’s. I told myself I would increase the contributions later but daycare expenses, wages lost for sick days, soccer, swimming, skating, not to mention general increases in costs of living such as increasing gas prices and the like all competed with the ability to increase contributions despite foregone family trips and frugal use of handmedowns. For years I felt as a failure as a parent because I wouldn’t somehow meet her needs as a future scholar. Eventually, for my second child, my home bank told me I didn’t have to be with USC; I could contribute as I saw fit with them. I put in half of all their birthday money and once we were done with daycare expenses, I contributed monthly at CCB time. Once established in my career I sought consultation from an advisor again at my home bank still with anxiety about not having enough for my kids to cover their full university costs and my advisor told me, “Your kids can get a student loan; there are no loans for retirement.” ….
If I could go back in time, I would have balanced my desire to save for my children’s studies with my own retirement savings. At 40 I realized I was falling short on both. Student loans have changed and more money is given as grants than when I was in university and my daughter graduated with a manageable student loan to repay. Her brother goes next year and he will have a modest student loan and that will be okay. Now after years of guilt of never finding enough money to fully fund my children’s future education, I am focusing on retirement savings – something that would probably be easier if I hadn’t fed into to USC’s sales pitch.
Thanks MoneySense for publishing this article – this is what should go out to all the new parents.